Our series of book recommendations to empower talent and fuel brands.

Why Perpetual recommends it
Geoffrey Cohen’s Belonging brings rigorous social psychology to a topic often discussed in purely intuitive terms, making the case that belonging uncertainty, the nagging sense of not being sure you’re valued or fit in, shapes performance and wellbeing far more than most leaders realise. Cohen’s research spans schools, hospitals and workplaces, giving the book a breadth that’s unusually well evidenced.
The book’s central and most hopeful finding is that belonging can be strengthened through small, deliberate interventions rather than only through large structural change. A single well-timed piece of feedback, framed to affirm belonging rather than just correct performance, has been shown in Cohen’s research to measurably change outcomes for people who were quietly uncertain about their place on a team.
Cohen is careful to show that belonging uncertainty isn’t evenly distributed, people from underrepresented or marginalised groups tend to carry more of it into everyday interactions, which means the same ambiguous comment or exclusion can land very differently depending on who receives it.
This is a genuinely useful book for leaders who want the research backing behind why small everyday moments, not just formal policy, do so much of the work of making people feel they belong.
- Belonging uncertainty quietly affects performance and wellbeing far more than most leaders assume
- Small, well-timed interventions can measurably shift someone’s sense of belonging
- Belonging uncertainty is unevenly distributed across different groups
- Everyday moments, not just formal policy, carry most of the weight in building belonging
A practical starting point is being deliberate about how you frame feedback, pairing correction with a clear, explicit signal that the person belongs and is valued on the team.
We give this book four and a half out of five stars.